dressing
Getting dressed has become a daily struggle.
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Dressing is a nine or ten step sequence, and sequencing is one of the earlier abilities dementia disrupts. Underwear over trousers is a missing step, not carelessness. Lay clothes out in order, hand over one item at a time, and reduce the number of choices.
What to try
- 1Lay the clothes in a single pile in the order they go on, and hand them over one at a time.
- 2Reduce the wardrobe to a few outfits — too much choice causes freezing, not freedom.
- 3Buy duplicates of the favourite item so it can be washed without a confrontation.
- 4Pair a short verbal cue with a gesture: "Left arm," while touching the sleeve.
- 5Let them finish the last step themselves, even if it is only one sleeve.
What to avoid
- Asking "What do you want to wear?" in front of a full wardrobe.
- Taking over completely because it is faster — speed today costs ability tomorrow.
- Insisting on matching or seasonally correct clothes if they are warm, safe and comfortable.
Clothes that make it easier
- Elasticated waists instead of belts and zips.
- Slip-on shoes with a good sole, not backless slippers.
- Front-fastening tops rather than anything over the head.
- Large buttons, or hook-and-loop fastenings that look like buttons.
- Colours that contrast with the bed or chair so the item stands out.
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Evidence checked
Not checked against published guidance. Treat this as a starting point and confirm anything important with a professional.
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