Guides
Guides for the situations that do not have a leaflet. Every one names how it was written, how far it has been checked, and what has not been clinically reviewed.
Understanding dementia
- What is dementia actually doing to them?4 min read
- Does the type of diagnosis change what I should do?3 min read
- How will this change over time?4 min read
- Is this normal ageing or something to worry about?3 min read
- They do not recognise me. Should I correct them?4 min read
- They keep asking to go home, but they are home. What do I say?4 min read
- They keep asking for someone who has died. Do I tell them?4 min read
- Things keep going missing and getting hidden. What do I do?3 min read
- They are confused about what day it is or where they are.4 min read
Communication
- How do I talk to them so they understand me?4 min read
- They ask the same question over and over. How do I handle it?4 min read
- I cannot understand what they are trying to say.4 min read
- They startle or react badly when I come near. What am I doing wrong?3 min read
- Should I lie to them, or keep correcting them?4 min read
Behaviour and distress
- Why has their behaviour changed so much?4 min read
- They get angry and lash out. What do I do in the moment?5 min read
- They are restless and agitated, especially later in the day.4 min read
- They refuse all my help. How do I get anything done?4 min read
- They see or hear things that are not there.4 min read
- They accuse me of stealing from them or of things I have not done.4 min read
- Do I keep telling them bad news they cannot remember?3 min read
Everyday care
- They refuse to shower or bathe. How do I manage washing?5 min read
- Getting dressed has become a daily struggle.4 min read
- They are not eating properly. What can I do?5 min read
- They are not drinking enough.3 min read
- They are having accidents. How do I handle the toilet?5 min read
- They keep waking during the night. How do I get us both some sleep?5 min read
- How should I structure the day?4 min read
- What can we actually do together that they will enjoy?4 min read
Safety and planning
- They keep trying to leave the house. How do I keep them safe?5 min read
- How do I make the home safer without turning it into a hospital?4 min read
- They should not be driving. How do I handle it?4 min read
- What should we sort out legally and financially, and when?5 min read
- Who do I actually contact, and for what?4 min read